Here are some possible questions and answers for a quiz that helps determine whether you’re in love with your best friend:
1. How do you feel when you’re around your best friend?
– A) I’m completely comfortable and just enjoy spending time with them.
– B) I feel nervous or excited, and sometimes I can’t stop thinking about them.
– C) I’m mostly indifferent or treat them like any other friend.
2. Do you often find yourself thinking about your best friend when you’re not together?
– A) Not really, I have a lot of other things on my mind.
– B) Yes, I think about them a lot, even when we’re apart.
– C) I might think about them occasionally, but it’s not overwhelming.
3. When your best friend is dating someone, how do you feel?
– A) I’m happy for them and just want them to be happy.
– B) I feel a bit jealous or upset, even though I don’t want to admit it.
– C) I don’t really feel anything special about it.
4. Do you ever imagine a future with your best friend?
– A) No, I just think of them as a close friend, nothing more.
– B) Yes, sometimes I picture us as a couple or in a deeper relationship.
– C) Occasionally, but it’s more of a passing thought.
5. How do you feel when your best friend gives attention to someone else?
– A) I’m completely okay with it; they deserve to have other friends too.
– B) I feel a little left out or hurt, even though I try not to show it.
– C) I feel indifferent. It doesn’t bother me much.
6. How do you act around your best friend when no one else is around?
– A) I’m myself, just like I am with anyone else.
– B) I get nervous or act in ways I wouldn’t with other people.
– C) I feel totally at ease and can talk about anything without hesitation.
7. Do you ever get butterflies or excited when you know you’re going to see your best friend?
– A) Not really, I’m just happy to hang out.
– B) Yes, sometimes I get a little excited or nervous.
– C) I feel completely at ease, no butterflies.
8. Have you ever felt an intense emotional reaction toward your best friend, like a rush of affection or love?
– A) No, I care for them, but it’s strictly platonic.
– B) Yes, there have been moments when I felt strongly toward them.
– C) I’m unsure; I think I might feel something, but it’s confusing.
9. When you talk to your best friend, how do you feel afterward?
– A) I feel happy, relaxed, and like I’ve had a good conversation.
– B) I feel a sense of longing or sadness, wishing the conversation could last longer.
– C) I feel fine, but not particularly moved or excited.
10. Have you ever caught yourself daydreaming about being in a romantic relationship with your best friend?
– A) Never, I don’t think of them that way.
– B) Yes, occasionally I imagine us together as more than friends.
– C) I’ve thought about it several times, but I try not to dwell on it.
Scoring:
– Mostly A’s: It’s likely that you see your best friend as a close companion, but not in a romantic way. Your relationship is likely rooted in a deep friendship.
– Mostly B’s: You might be developing romantic feelings for your best friend. You feel something deeper than friendship, and there may be underlying emotions that you need to explore.
– Mostly C’s: You seem to have a good understanding of your feelings, but you’re not sure if it’s romantic attraction. It might be helpful to reflect more on your emotions and interactions to gain clarity.
